I have lived next to LEO and he had a house a little higher than mine. I worked with his wife. He said nothing and enjoyed my parties. He would not partake, but we smoked in the next room and he had to know it was going on. Plus, he was a NARC officer!!! That was about 1980 or so.

Take a nice basket of vegs and keep them coming! Get to know his wife. If he has children, it may be more of a problem.

If he has a city dog, that will say a lot.

THE MORE YOU KNOW ABOUT HE AND HIS FAMILY, THE BETTER CHOICE'S YOU WILL MAKE!

You have a great deal of excellent advice!

Keep vaping, taking it slow and make a decision based on knowledge and not fear! I've been to lots of parties with LEO's and they are not all the same! If they like you, they will protect you! His age and length on the force will have a bit to do with it as well. A lot get apathetic after years of fighting something and nothing happens, so they get curious instead of ruler of the street! I hate to say such a biased statement, but I've yet to meet a LEO that doesn't have his own secrets. Even if he is bringing another woman home in the afternoon, while his wife is at work! Due diligence--knowledge can be a very good weapon, if used correctly!

I'd be nervous, until I got to know them. I doubt I'd want to be BFF with him, but his wife and yours (if you have one) is a good way to set things up! Keep your yard nice and place up to compliment his. Don't draw attention with a lot of useless visits, either. He'll surely feel you have a guilty heart about something. Start out nice and neighborly! As you have!

If you can't decide, I'd move. Your guilty feelings will get you caught!:hippy: