some of the responses were funny, some just good 'ol support.
They sender was more then happy to resend in proper shipping methods. Just in a hurry and shit happens..
Sender never asked for money in the first place and didn't the second time, just a good deed when one was in need.

Thanks for the comments on the avatar, it has become my identifying stamp.
Sometimes I want to change it, but i know when others *regulars* change theirs i often dont notice their remarks,comments in threads. as i dont look at there name i look the avatar..