stay away from the desert (san bernadino) at all cost. nothing but meth tweakers up there. i live in the valley and love it. it all depends on what you like to do (beach, shopping, outdoor activities, etc..) don't let these people scare you saying that you won't make it moving out here. I moved from chicago when I was 18 and have been able to support myself and successfully pursue my passions. Counties up north are much more grower-friendly, such as humbolt, redding, sac-town.

best of luck