First off I'd like to thank you all for your help and I ask that you please be serious on this subject.


Ok here's the situation. My dad smokes often, he works so hard and he is honestly the best father that I have ever seen (but that really isn't important for this). I myself smoke often, both my parents know. I am 18 and they know that I am responsible. The only thing is, they do NOT want my little brother knowing that I smoke, he already knows our dad does. I don't want him to know I smoke either, but I'm afraid that he may already know. I think he's smelled it on me. My little brother (14 years old) has told me that he has smoked mutliple times, I do not know if he does it regularly. He has asked me if I ever smoked and I casually tell him, "No, it causes to many problems and I don't want that influence in my life". My father feels that it is his fault that I smoke (completely my choice) so we do not talk to each other about smoking. So if he knew my little brother is a possible smoker he'd probably be devistated. The thing is with me and my parents both pushing off the subject, while at the same time smoking; I don't think he's getting the proper guidence on the subject. He is just starting high school and I don't want his little punk ass no good friends too end up having the most influence on him. I just want to make sure that he knows not too do anything REALLY stupid, no matter what the fuck someone tells him.

Here are the options I've come up with so far...

1. Tell my parent's that he's smoked before and that he may know I smoke, and that we all need to sit down or something. (Problems with this: I'd be busting out my brother, my parent's could end up flipping on the both of us, and most of all MY DAD WOULD FEEL HE IS WORTHLESS)

2. I talk with him myself and just lay it out there for him.

3. Don't do anything and hope that he can be smart about this.
inyoureye Reviewed by inyoureye on . PLEASE!!!! I need some advice First off I'd like to thank you all for your help and I ask that you please be serious on this subject. Ok here's the situation. My dad smokes often, he works so hard and he is honestly the best father that I have ever seen (but that really isn't important for this). I myself smoke often, both my parents know. I am 18 and they know that I am responsible. The only thing is, they do NOT want my little brother knowing that I smoke, he already knows our dad does. I don't want him to know I Rating: 5