Exactly, what are his threats. Would you be better off, if he did it? How far do you think he'll get, before he drops the threats and breaks down to your begging and crying? Or have you already been there? And therapy? Seems a lot more to this and the options are already clear to you! Not us; We tell you, do what makes you feel good and we'll support you, emotionally! But, advice in your situation; sounds a little more domplicated to share, what we would do, at about your age and see the long term problems or solutions in them! Good luck to you!:hippy: