My ex-wife has the same conditions-I did all the house work & cooking(she wasnt a good cook)while working 8-10 hrs days,6days aweek. help coach my kids in there sports3-4days aweek(3boys)I did everything to lighten her load.But alas it wasnt enough-my boys got together(at the time-18-14-11)and said dad enoughs enough,so I filed for diverce.You MUST find an outlet-walks,a hobby anything-pot helped my ex but booze was the worse.Kids are now 23-19-16 and thriving,the ex still has her issues but is getting better at dealing with -oops gotta go 19yr old needs comp. for college homewrk.Oh this went on for 10yrs befor my kids sat me down