Quote Originally Posted by boskama
I'm an adult
That should be your solution right there... but I understand that you may be in a situation where you need to stay in your parents good graces and going along with the test keeps a roof over your head. I figure, if you are a legal adult, you have the right to tell your parents that you aren't comfortable with a stranger watching you urinate. It's a perfectly reasonable response. If you feel that being 18 allows you to ask a professional tester to disobey his job requirements, then being 18 should also allow you to address your parents respectfully and explain to them that adults make their own decisions. At 18, you are a legal adult and can not be required to submit to any UA unless ordered by a judge. However, it does not mean that by denying the test, you can live in your parents home. I see two choices for you...

#1: Take the test and deal with the results. Quit smoking while you live with your parents, and deal with the fact that you should obey the rules the household has set. (As you would expect people living in your home to respect your rules)

#2: Stand up for yourself as an adult, refuse to let another man stare at your genitals while you urinate, and move OUT!!

Number 2 will show your parents maturity, and at the same time announce your philosphy on the responsible use of cannabis.

(chants #2 #2 #2 #2 #2 #2) :thumbsup: Good luck and Stay

After reading another post of yours about your families religious beliefs and basically your personal slavery... I have no idea what you should do. Good luck man. If you truly are against your families Mormon beliefs... GET OUT OF THERE!!! It's only going to make you miserable.