Quote Originally Posted by psychocat
I think it's probably female because of your description the males have two things that resemble balls (its the truth dude) whereas the female has two "stalks" not unlike small hairs.

It could just be a sickly plant or it could possibly be you're set up.
What lamps do you use,are they directly under the lights,even the amount of water can effect the growth cycle.
In the growing period they should get around 16 hours of light.
In general it doesn't look too bad,maybe a little on the small side.
Good luck man.

I think my set up is pretty good. they are under lights 24/7. they are about 2 inches from hanging flourescent lights. ive read up quite a bit and this seems to be the run of the mill set up. the lights may be a little weak but other than that, i dont see any problems.