Quote Originally Posted by 311junkie
whats wrong with this plant? it's not nearly as beautiful as the other one. any suggestions or comments about the well being of my babies?
I think it's probably female because of your description the males have two things that resemble balls (its the truth dude) whereas the female has two "stalks" not unlike small hairs.

It could just be a sickly plant or it could possibly be you're set up.
What lamps do you use,are they directly under the lights,even the amount of water can effect the growth cycle.
In the growing period they should get around 16 hours of light.
In general it doesn't look too bad,maybe a little on the small side.
Good luck man.