Quote Originally Posted by Coelho
I agree completly! And i dont mean it as a joke, as Dragonrider does. I mean seriously.

Coelho, I watched The Secret last summer and did believe in it, at least as a solid theory worth trying. I constantly focused on what I want, constantly believed that I would accomplish my goals, and was extremely certain that some very important things would go through for me. And guess what; it all fell apart. Everything. In fact I can confidently say from years of experience with this consistent phenomenon, that the more certain I am that something will work, the better chance that it won't. Likewise, the only time shit ever does work out for me is when I finally, completely and utterly, give up and lose hope. Based on obvious and consistent experience, I give more validity to Murphey's Law than the Law of Attraction.