Ok, well they have outgrown the shock of the transplanting, and are growing nice, its also been almost everyday....finally got a nice camera so im updating....
Pic 1 is the female
Pic 2 is the male...which i hope is a hermie so i might be able to clone a female branch and yea u get the idea...
Pic 3 is both side by side
Pic 4 and 5 are macro shots of the sex

I do have a quick question about hermies....if my male turns out a hermie, can i clone a female branch and will that clone turn out all female?