What? So are you saying she confessed to spraying your weed plants with an herbicide? If she did, I don't think flushing is going to help. Man if so, that's low. Get a medical card and explain to your wife about the benefits of the medicine for you, and how much money it will save to grow, and how it will help your well being simply because of the relaxing hobby. Do the dishes or vacuum more often, and plead with her for understanding and compassion. Or just don't grow.

My wife isn't thrilled about it, but she tolerates it as long as it is medicinal. Lucky me. It would be really cool though if we share the hobby.