Dragonslayer....even though I am a female I think that I can perhaps shed some light on this for you....

Alot of men have a complex about the size or shape of their penis, so your not alone my friend your just a bit more honest about it and theres nothing wrong with that. To start with alot of women do not climax tho penetration alone, it usually needs to be a combination of things. As you may know women have several erogeness zones, with the main one being the clit. If you spend alil less time thinking about the whole penis in fanny part and concentrate on stimulating her other zones with either your finger, tounge, or maybe another object, the intercourse side of things will just happen, because it is pre-programmed into all humans because sex is a part of human nature. A good lover is not measured by the size of his penis, its all about stimulation of alot of diff parts of the female body, and as you will discover as you partake with diff ppl, no two women are the same...bit unfair for you men but heh its just how it is....