It is tuff to know who is in need and who is looking for a handout. I think just allowing yourself to be fooled and not getting upset about it is a good place to start. Because really who am i to judge another's financial and healthful wellbeing.
I will post any progress i have so that if anyone has similar interest it could be of help. If anyone has other ideas of where to start, i am all ears.
Ofcourse i'll be starting small as i am at about 25% as successful as i thought i would be at this point.