start seeds in a seedling starter mix and add some xtra perlite for added areation. if you mix up your own soil make sure theres no nutes in the soil til the plant has gotten around 3-5 sets of true serrated leaves. the plants shouldnt come out of soil and lay on the soil. they should reach for the light. make sure they have a good root system before transplanting to help reduce shock. water when soil drys out. if the soil doesnt dry out suffeciently between waterings it can help cause a higher risk of mold/rotting conditions

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