There will always be flirting in chat, it's the nature of how men and woman are - it's supposed to be fun, light-hearted banter. I personally couldn't give a tuppenny f**k what people want to chat about but if it's overtly sexual or bordering on explicit then take it p2p/yahoo/msn etc.

I do have an objection however to people who deliberately mislead, manipulate and f**k with people's feelings. Naive people (normally teens) fall hook, line and sinker and before you can say "OH SNAP", are talking about selling up and moving halfway across the continent to begin their new life with X, Y or Z (not you Z )

Let's just chill out and keep it real