i think its important that you tell her EVERYTHING you posted on this thread. It is very improtant to be open and honest in a releationship. I'm not sure why you are so worried that she will flip out, as it seems that you and her are already not on the best terms currently. Hiding more things from her will do nothing to fix your current situation. If revealing your marijuana use becomes the tipping point that leads to a divorce, it is still not the end of the world. You are both young and still have your entire life ahead of you. However, if you reveal your true feeling about marijuana and you and here truly love each other, I do not see you two divorcing over marijuana use alone.


BTW, i wouldn't tell your therapist about marijuana use. They will likely shun you for it, being that most doctors are prudes. Trust me i know ;-)