I might show her this video (linked below) and then have "the talk" with her. (she loves drew carey and I bet she has no idea he probably smokes refer)

reason.tv - Videos > Medical Marijuana

I'll let her know I love her, but I've decided that the drug laws in this country need to be changed and I'm going to fight to do it. I'll tell her I want to try marijuana for the same reason I initially tried beer.

I'm so nervous just even imagining doing this... but I think this is what I need to do.
jsn9333 Reviewed by jsn9333 on . My wife doesn't know I use cannabis. I am in a very messed up situation. Maybe some of the older members of the board can give me some advice from a toker's perspective, since I don't have any good friends that smoke that I can talk to. Please try to be mature as you read and respond as this is a very real, very painful, and very personal situation. My wife doesn't know I smoke weed. If she asked me then I would tell her, because I would never lie to her. But she doesn't even suspect and I've never given her any reason to Rating: 5