Yeah daihashi, I'm definitely telling her. It's just a matter of how to do it in the most loving way... thanks for your advice man, I appreciate it a lot.

I like the idea of talking to the therapist about it first... but I don't like people I don't know knowing that I smoke weed. So I guess I'm just going to take her hand and tell her like it is as calmly as possible and try to reassure her that I love her.

I just got a job offer today for a summer associate position with a firm in another town too.... that is going to possibly put another big issue into the mix of things... we'll see...
jsn9333 Reviewed by jsn9333 on . My wife doesn't know I use cannabis. I am in a very messed up situation. Maybe some of the older members of the board can give me some advice from a toker's perspective, since I don't have any good friends that smoke that I can talk to. Please try to be mature as you read and respond as this is a very real, very painful, and very personal situation. My wife doesn't know I smoke weed. If she asked me then I would tell her, because I would never lie to her. But she doesn't even suspect and I've never given her any reason to Rating: 5