Yeah daihashi, I'm definitely telling her. It's just a matter of how to do it in the most loving way... thanks for your advice man, I appreciate it a lot.

I like the idea of talking to the therapist about it first... but I don't like people I don't know knowing that I smoke weed. So I guess I'm just going to take her hand and tell her like it is as calmly as possible and try to reassure her that I love her.

I just got a job offer today for a summer associate position with a firm in another town too.... that is going to possibly put another big issue into the mix of things... we'll see...