We'll I would not make a decision on eating more seeds than you normally do based on my advice, but I've tried that shit and it never worked for me.

All treating the seeds is is soaking the finely ground seeds in a organic solvent to dissolve the stuff in the seeds that makes you nausious. The you dry then out completly. The only reason you would distill the solvent is because most commercially available sovents will not evaporate off completely cause there cut with poison to discourage drug preparation usage.

And the problem with hot water is that the indoles are sensitive to heat and will quickly decompose.