relax man, no one is trying to insult you, try and understand that you're not the first newbie to pose these sorts of questions. and i don't think anyone is telling you your stuff is shit, the thing is, it's really obvious you haven't done your research. people don't want to help people too lazy to help themselves. listen to Stinky, she may come across a little gruff but she knows her shit, and she has helped, and continues to help, newbies like you and me. if you can get her to coach her you will learn a thing or two