hey thanks for all the input guys and or gals. To the smoking monkey, im not judging her harshly. I would not even consider being with someone I disrespected. Its just id like to try to get over this feeling of mine. As for nailhead, I can see where you are coming from. I dont like to think im immature when it comes to relationships, I am well aware its chemicals in your mind. I dont think of it as that though, and I dont think of the idea of love as some crazy spiritual thing either.

Anyways, I appreciate everyone has to say. Im making progress. Ive been talking to her about it. I really like what you had to say 420 and marquis. Ive told her im not going to ask her to quit. She says she wanted to after I had told her that. I told her not to because of how I felt. A - I dont want to control her. B - What if she just lies about it, no good. So what we have come up with is, I will just delve myself into that world. I wont smoke it persay, but ill be around it when she does it. Just get used to its affects on her and then get used to it. Thus I can be familiar with it, without trying it.

Hopefully this will work out to help dissapate these bad vibes about it. Because I thought about it and ive only been around her once as she did it. I have a feeling im gonna be pretty shitty about it, but I just gotta keep hanging out with her, and her smoking buds and perhaps, just perhaps, this will work itself out.

Let me know what you think of that.

Thanks for the responses all.