Nailhead - Smoking doesnt define who this girl is. Its not her main hobby, passion and joy in life, it is far from it. It is just something she does from time to time that I feel shit about and would like to stop feeling shit about. Its not like I feel shitty about it all the time. Every now and then when it sneaks into my head it can get me down. Other than those few times, things are amazing with her. Just because we dont share exactly the same interests doesnt mean we cant be together. I play paintball and powerlift, she isnt really into those things, but she doesnt think about dumping me because I do something she is unfamiliar with. Im not going to leave her because of a little plant ;P Thats ridiculous.

Anywho - Ill keep people posted on how things work out if need be. It seems just talking about it with people lately has helped tremendously. So thanks for those of you with input to it.