Well after a little more waiting I am positve that one of my plants is a male. the other one is just starting to show sex and i can't exactly tell what sex it is. But im not going to let this get me down! I still have 2 plants in the vegitative stage. and i have 4 more seeds starting to pop their little heads out of the soil. I have to get at least one female from all these seeds!

One question about my 2 ladies in vegitative though: when I Lst'ed them, one of the plants main stems cracked. I let the plant repair itself for a week or so and it seems to be doing fine. how long should i wait before flowering this stressed plant?

Pictures 1&2 are the male flowered at 12 days. Picture 3&4 are of the other plant that is just starting to show sex. and picture 5 is of my 4 little girls starting to pop out.