Sorry, but one thing that I am a vehement proponent of is trying to limit the stereotyping of pot smokers. I myself am a very responsible adult, who other than my use of cannabis medicinally and admittedly recreationally, follows the law as much as possible. I cannot and will not help a minor..(trust me this one is....) grow an illegal substance in his parent's house without their knowledge. It's even worse when he refuses to take advice from those he seeked it from, and got snotty. Lastly, is matters not how nice he is. He posted a grow, asked questions about it, got advice, ignored and reprimanded the givers of said advice, was warned of consequence, started to experience said consequence, and WANTS TO KNOW WHY!!! LOL if there is one thing I cannot tolerate its stupidity, and that level of stubborn is just stupid... (DISCLAIMER...By "stupid", I am not referring to anyone with a mental disability and/or incapacity. Just a stupid kid..) I understand your take, I just do not appreciate being berated when I am trying to help someone...after they asked for help.