Big question that needs to be answered before you'll get any answers -- how old are you?

Secondly, punctuation is your friend around these boards. Your post is really hard to follow, which might turn some other (more knowledgeable) posters off from trying to piece everything together. Listen to your lawyer, if you shelled out that much money for him already, and you still haven't gone to trial, then he had better be a damn good trial lawyer.