Quote Originally Posted by stinkyattic
Shit happens. Some people just end up being so nice that they put themselves in situations where other not so nice people can take advantage of them. It's sad, but you have to remember that being a good person and telling people 'NO' are not mutually exclusive!

You can be kind and still be assertive and proactive, and get what you really need without hurting others.
that is so true and well said. life will throw many challenges in front of you in life you need to assess why these things have happened so you can learn from it and your armed with the knowledge you need to prevent the same things happening again in the future, i do believe in karma but some time karma isnt just about good and bad but teaching us lessons along the way.