When I'm sober I'd say I'm very self concious and I get very worried about what people think of me. I think this is much like your "Perfectionism", so you're not the only one. When I'm high though, I tend to relax more, and I tend to be more comfortable with the situation. But, sometimes I don't relax and it leads to a not so good high.

I think Coelho asked some very good questions. Get those answered and it will help solve your problem tremedously.

Keep us posted on how it goes!
excitebike Reviewed by excitebike on . Anxiety, Self-Doubt, and Perfectionism Question is not necessarily cannabis-related, but here goes. I am very anxious about what other people think of me and I'm very competitive, want to perform well, etc. I think this is called "Perfectionism" by a lot of psychologists. Sober, it makes me really high strung. High, it really kills my buzz! So in both cases... what are some things to help me reframe my attitude and get rid of my perfectionism?? It's a little different than anxiety. It's like a really specific anxiety Rating: 5