Unless I was with someone who whole heartedly wanted to be a father I would never consider bringing a child into this world. I sort of feel like single parents are an example of wanting the child but not the work it takes to make a family. After all its the family that has to work together to stay together, single parents just do it because they want to or sometimes have too.

Not knocking single parents, but I learned at an early age how to walk away not try and work it out. My parents did it, and now I do it.