What I want to know is what gives that person the right to tell you when they think you are "out of control"? I mean as long as you're pot smoking is in moderation, what's the big deal? Some ppl are just not happy unless they are the boss of it all. Some ppl are also very jealous when someone close to them grows and moves on without them. Maybe this person sees you moving on in life like 42 said and doesn't like it. If so, then that's their problem, not yours, Goose.