Can something work TOO well?

[smokealot123]

i was a spiled little shit that argued and faught evry day untill i found a joint.. wasnt too long either lol like when i was 13 or 12 i found it smoked it now im almost 19 and i inprove evryday there is 1 downside to marijuana i think and it's memory loss

i forgot to mention there are things that work even better but most of them all have worse downsides, i would reccomend for the stress of evryday encounters ex.kids use 1 medication marijuana, and it dont stop there, for someone interested in this marijuana is like a prescription (sp) drug store, you can get it for pain, stress, eating dissorders and the list goes on.... just go to a seedbank and reed up on there differnt strains ! you will be shocked !

i loves my draw i do

[SFGurrilla]

BuzzUK: I work as a housekeeper. Tuesday night was my first time working for a couple, and the husband was supposed to be at work and I was being shown what my new duties were with them. Halfway through scrubbing the floors of the Master bathroom, I heard footsteps behind me, and I thought it was the wife, but it was the guy. He put his hand over my mouth so I couldn't speak and started........... um....... I guess the best way to say it would be he started spanking me?

Then his wife came back in, and (how do I say this on a canncom forum without getting my post deleted?) they started engaging in "marital" activities. Sometime during that, he moved his hands and started asphyxiating me. In my head, the whole time, a factual report was playing, going something along the lines of, "He's cutting off my ability to inhale. I'm not able to breathe. This is not conducive to my continued existence." but I never panicked. I tried telling him to stop, but I never, you know, punched or kicked or any of the other things I should have. *shrugs* Then after he and his wife were done, he just gave me a weird kiss on the forehead and went back to work and I went back to cleaning the bathroom.

The acts themselves I don't have that much of a problem with. My roommate likes getting choked during sex, and whatever, I don't have a problem with it. That's fine. I understand everyone has their own thing they enjoy. What I really minded is that they did not ask me if it was okay or give me a chance to excuse myself from the incident. I'd never met this guy before and it was more than inappropriate for this STRANGER to just assume that he had the right to do to me whatever he wanted.

I know that I should call the police, but once again, I feel so passive. He didn't do any lasting harm, and as I said, I don't feel traumatized by the experience. Yes, he needs to learn where boundaries are, but I think dragging the law into it would be unnecessary.

Needless to say, at the least, I'm not working for them ever again.

wtf?

[TheSmokingMonkey]

Perhaps you "should" have fought him off, but it's very very normal for people, all people, to freeze in a situation like that and not know what to do or how to feel.

It's just totally abnormal and your mind like short-circuits. It doesn't have anything to do with the weed.

If you feel like you have a problem, then stop. It's that simple.

But I wouldn't take your behavior in this situation as too much of a factor - it's just too bizarro to go on.

[THClord]

Maybe my firecrackers worked too well. I had firecrackers with 2 girls yesterday and one of them is still high, and she has to study for a midterm.

[Weedhound]

Do NOT go back there.....EVER. I didn't read this entire thread but I don't need to....Weed my ass....you are in shock and denial. You have had a life and death experience and your mind is blocking the horror of it out. Trust me. I'm positive.

You need to tell the police.....no excuses, no nothing. If what you say is true then somebody tried to kill you....or at least hurt you VERY badly. That needs to be stopped. How would you feel if you read in the paper tomorrow that he hurt and/or killed someone else?

I repeat: This situation has absolutely NOTHING to do with marijuana. Call the police. immediately.

Yes its easier to close your eyes and pretend nothing happened. But I can guarantee that is not the last time something like that will happen in that family. He will do it again.

It's up to you. Good luck and best wishes.

[bluebird]

Weedhound: I went to the campus police on Friday and they brought someone in from the county to talk about it with me. They got the names, address, and description of both people along with what happened. They said they would have a talk with them and, depending on a lot of things, I can choose whether or not to press charges.

*takes a deep breath* That wasn't an easy thing to do, explaining what happened to them (cops just terrify me, even when I know they're on my side of things).

Thank you so much for your response, and yeah, the whole situation was just SO weird. I didn't know if it was the pot or the insanity, but since I'm normally fine with pot, it must just be the situation was so bad.

*hugs* And yes, I did make a huge note to never take their business again.

[Weedhound]

Good job! Things like that are so abnormal....and out our of every day experiences that sometimes its very hard for the mind to process them.......especially in any logical way because the actions are so damn illogical. It takes time to come to grips with that kind of thing and I'll say again.....I seriously don't think marijuana had anything to do with the situation. Stay safe always!

Good luck.

[silverspring07]

I was in shock reading that. I am glad you decided to go to the police - what they did was horrible and very wrong. This type of thing has nothing to do with weed - you were in shock and needed time to process what happened. When I am high I am usually more paranoid/aware of strange situations & people around me - being dead tired is what really gets my guard down and makes me feel like I have no control. Regardless, I hope they aren't able to do this to anyone again

[stinkyattic]

iTokethings, that was tasteless and insensitive. Grow up. We don't need comments like that about serious situations.

bluebird, GOOD. I am very glad you went to the fuzz and had a chance to talk to someone else about it who is both sympathetic, and in a position to do something.

[SMOKIN A WHILE]

Always listen to your inner voice, your instints were correct.