Thanks for the input. I would be worried about the fingerprint thing, but only growing one plant and protected by CA prop 215. I'm a caregiver growing for my girlfriend who has arthritis. That's another reason why I'm particularly bummed about the plant turning out to be male. For those who are interested I'm gonna contact the folks I got these seeds from and see what they say before I go saying names. I'm trying to keep a positive attitude about this... Katy that's not me in the avatar, it's my boy Charlie P. He's a rapper from Nashville, TN. Check out his music.
Thanks again to all who replied.

M.