"not sure what soil it is in it is in the dirt i got it in." :wtf:

What is the pH? The leaves are looking pretty sickly. I don't grow in soil but your tips are burnt for sure and they look twisty and dark. Not good signs. Here's a link you should bookmark for the future:

Revised: The Complete Guide To Sick Plants,pH and Pest Troubles - PlanetGanja.com