Quote Originally Posted by KayaKing
PS - Is it a bad idea to flush a plant that has been over watered, or when in doubt should I always flush first, ask questions later!? Thanks.
No, that's not a good mantra to live by! Sometimes it's water with an acidic/alkaline pH that's causing the problems, and will only be made worse by another flush. Test the pH of your tap water, especially since you haven't been using nutrients for all that long. The next time you need to water, water with enough pH-neutral water to produce some runoff from the bottom of the pot. Test the pH of the runoff.

This may or may not be contributing to some of your problems, but it's a good idea to know the pH of your water and soil. If things get too far out of whack, it'll pave the way for all sorts of other problems to happen.