Hell no i wouldnt give up Venus for ANYONE. hell, I didnt give her up when I had nowhere to live. I ate ramen noodles for the better part of a year to make sure her and my other little ones had their food and didnt go without. Its like with children. you wouldnt expect someone to give up their children for a lover. If you wanna be even my friend you have to like my dogs. if you dont like or at least tolerate them, there's the door. Dogs are much more loyal, loving, trusting and better behaved than most human beings out there. and if they eat your stash, then its ur own damn fault for leaving it out. i wouldnt give any of them up or weed. im willing to compromise on alot of things besides my dogs, my friends and my weed.
maybe Ya'll can slowly introduce your animals. bring ur kitty in a crate where they cant get ahold of it, and let them sniff around and get used to having it around. they will eventually deal, and get along or at least share living space.