Howdy adh,

"im thinking of outdoor growing but wouldnt be able to visit in very often.
id like any advice i can get on how to make them not die. "

It would help,if you could prep the grow site with fertilizers and such,maybe even some good potting soil . Finding out which grow zone you are in,would help also.

"also how to not get them found. "

Planting near other vegetation helps,don't use any pots or anything that's easy to see from the air..like white or red pots,if you use pots,even perlite can be seen from the air..you don't want to have a plot of fresh dark dirt,with bright,white perlite..cover it with plain dirt or topsoil and blend it into the surroundings.

"also will they stink? "

Some strains have little smell,whereas skunk strains,have alot of smell,do you know the prevailing wind pattern for your area and who's downwind of it ?

"can i unplant them, take them home when the buds begin to grow?"

Not likely,it would probably shock the heck out of your plants..plus,by the time they're ready to flower,chances are-that they could have a tap-root that goes down 20 or 30 feet.

Have a good one...