Can someone answer my question?

[Rusty Trichome]

I can hear my neighbors upstairs when there baby crys.

If discovered, or if shit happens, are you willing to risk this childs future for this? What do the parents think?

When i smoke they complain, but NL are suppose to smell good but thats always been said by someone who likes all kinds of smells that come from pot :P

I love the smell of skunk, but have heard stories of strains better suited for stealth grows. But all's I have to go on are the strains I grow, and they all stink pretty darned good.

so my concern and question is how much would it smell and how much do you think they would smell it?

Always assume they will eventually smell it, and never, ever piss them off once they do. Bad things can happen when good roomies freak.

Seriously, the best time to grow is when you are in a situation where you can do it right, and not put others in jeopardy. Especially kids.
Have you thought about an outdoor stealth grow?
(yes, I am an old fart)