ya u got some raggady friends if they dont like you b/c of what YOU like doing. its ur life and its not like it you smoking affects them. I smoke jsut to go to bed too. and none of my friends have a problem with it. but i guess the plan that u and ur dad set was is pretty elaborate. dude jsut do wat u do back in middle school. sign in under ur friends screen name and talk to ur friends pretending ur not there! works all the time