i think you should do what you want, if your friends wont tell you who told them that your a "pothead" then screw all of them a true friend will believe that what you tell them is the truth and then will tell you who told them, and they may only need a little proof, like showing them your baggy 2 days in a row to show that you only use a little, and the whole smoking at their house thing is out of respect if they dont smoke at all why should you, but dont let them smoke at your house either, and get some more friends who are mre accepting of your practices, but this thread has given me a good argument to argue with people who dont accept me because i dont smoke, tell them that if they cant accept that you smoke that you cant be friends because it is what you do and your open to what they do why arent they to you?