if your "friends" cant accept what you do in your spare time, then they really arent friends. why conform to what they want? why must you do things to please them? what have they done for you?? if you like smoking pot, keep smoking it. things have a way of working out. all through highschool i had one close set of friends, we were liked by others, we did occasionally hang out with those groups, and yes i did kick a kids ass because i got tired of all the shit that they talked to that group of friends, and got tired of all the stoner remarks,. but you know, since i have got out of school, i have a different group of friends, and the jist of it all, is all the people that ever gave me shit for smoking pot in highschool, when i see them now, they always ask me if i can score a bag, or if i want to go blaze one with them. enough about my story, but all i gotta say is do what makes you happy, dont conform, and find some true friends that respect your choices.