Depend's on why u dont like their job like is it a moral objection or does the job take up too much time,they come home smelling of road kill . Im reading into things a bit so i could be wrong but it seems u dont like it because they dont bring home enough money. in that case if your just being a snob and want to have a rich partner id find someone else and leave the other to find someone worth their time. If it just cos he/she is a no hopers going no where give them a chance to get it together and if they dont dump their ass. also by the way u say "attached" it doesnt seem like love either ,im "attached" to my fave bong i love my partner. like i said i am reading into things a bit so could be wrong