Well Shov you're right in that the first mistake is taking it too seriously which is why I only mentioned after it was still bothering me a few days later. And I can see why you'd take a normal thread (I think George Bush is the greatest president ever" is a thread that would be a good example.....have ratings all over the place and I'd be the first on the ratings button there as well) there but a grow log......that's just kind of your own hang out place. Maybe I'M mistaken about that but I kind of see it like ....."hey....i read your diary.....and gave you a C"

Anyway.....you are right that I am letting things get to me.....as I mentioned nothing but my perception of things has changed so that's my own issue. And you're right that most people don't use the system.......sorry.....some days I just a get bit down.