Quote Originally Posted by psychocat
Believe me when I say that calling your gf a spazz is hardly likely to make her feel secure with you, if (as I suspect ) she suffers from low self esteem you are just going to make it worse by calling her names and telling her not to be stupid or whatever.
Try to remain calm and point out why you think she is "the one" instead of berating her for something she can't help.
its not like i verbally abuse my girlfriend. i dont call her anything that would upset her, thats not me. i dont spout off names at her, any of that stuff.