girls breakups ups and downs the bends whatever

[thcbongman]

Eh, you gotta meet her halfway, and she needs to do the same. A bit of sacrifice is required. It would be best at the time to try to observe why she gets spazzy in those moments. You'd have an idea what to do NOT to cause it, and solve the problem. Also labeling what you are doing, ex. when you want to read a book while watching TV, just tell her what you are doing, and reassure her that doing so isn't a cause for not loving her.

[Mississippi Steve]

Sounds like you GF is really insecure. She has a lot of emotional growing to do. I bet she calls you all the time (4 or 5 time a day)when your not together also... just more insecurity.

FWIW...2 halves *DON"T* make a whole.....otoh....2 whole make a pair. Some on here will understand this statement, some won't.

At 22 and 23, both of you probably still have a lot of growing to do before your ready for a real, long term, relationship.

[Nation_1ne]

the piano in that song is really neat, even if its a tiny little scale or bar or riff or whatever you want to call it.

god bless conscious rap!

Yeah, I really liked the whole album. I remember buying it in a record store whilst I was on holiday in America about 4 years ago. Anyway that album got a lot of criticism by which I was surprised. I thought "You can't Imagine How Much Fun We're Having" was awful. There were a few select good tracks, one of which is an instrumental from Visionaries Pangaea.

[xxMJAHxx]

"I thought it was supposed to get easier when you worked harder"

it just sucks when everything is going great, then out of nowhere this crap pops up. this always happens. its like a once every other month thing now, and i cant take it. i cant take being questioned on my integrity over and over and over, the same thing again and again. it just makes me dislike her. and she always has a way of making me feel bad about everything. if i get upset when this kind of stuff happens, she always says "see i know you dont care, because whenever i ask about this you always get mad". i dont get mad i just get upset that she doesnt trust me after all this time. then when i say that, she says "you have to earn your trust" what the hell have i been doing the past 2 years?!

I think i may have found the problem, lol,
once a month you say?

[Ganj]

Just be sweet, man. She doesn't need to feel persecuted for sharing her thoughts and emotions with you. I realize you're schedule is probably pretty cramped right about now, just don't feel pressured around her because that's relaxation time. Be more like latin romance, if you could feel that.

[luvfriday]

huh are you saying thats all i care for? haha

Well I dont know about you, but it works great for me.

[halfassedjediknight]

I think i may have found the problem, lol,
once a month you say?

hahaha its not the red tide! im pretty sure of that.

shes thinks im gods gift to women or something, so she thinks all the ladies are gonna snag me from her.

to all of you who suggested insecurity, you hit the nail on the head. she tells me shes insecure, in a lot of ways. she tells me shes real insecure about herself (she thinks shes ugly fat and boring..not unlike most girls ive dated).

i feel kind of in a funk because i havnt talked to her in like a week or more. you know that 'somethin aint right' feeling. it sucks, its kind of draining.

bahhhh gimme a bowl!

[SFGurrilla]

my girlfriend is a spazz and wants to break up because she doesnt think i really love her or care for her. its because shes one of those people who love to be smothered in emotion, and im one of those people who would choke if smothered. i cant stand being all lovey dovey 24/7.

please dont get me wrong..im not careless and emotionless..i love her with all my heart. but she doesnt seem to appreciate me or something. its like im not good enough for her, so she just gets mad and spazzes out on me and asks me 100 times if i still love her and she says she doesnt trust me and all this.

what am i to do? man i hate girl problems. and youd think that after 2 years stuff like this would smooth out fast.

break up and wait a few months I did im back with my girl. things couldnt be better

[GrinS]

Im probley insensitive, but if a woman was causing me alot of problems and constantly asking me if "I still love here" even over 4 times a day, I would put my foot down hard, and fast.

Not saying that you should do that or anything, but saying what I would do.