I dont think your over-reacting. I cant stand it.

Out of all my mates, i was the only one who'd arrange meetings, be on time etc. It used to drive me mad when they'd cancel a minute before they were meant to be meeting me. It mucked my whole fucking day up.

But i dont get that kinda thing anymore. I just bump into people at the snooker club or in the boozer as and when.

Apart from my dealer, or THE BUTCHER [my best mate, he got his nickname coz he likes knives... big fuck off heavy knives...] and my girlfriend - they're the only people i call to meet up with and they never cancel on me. Although i dont call my dealer, i just knock on his door or go round the back and let myself in.