Quote Originally Posted by chisme
no offence you sound just liek the lady in my post above,,,,EXPLAIN TO THE CHIL WITH WORDS ? og for fucks sake friend what time and age are you living in? kids dont give a shit about why you think they cant do this or that kids want to do what kids want to do,

my sisters two boys for instance,

she yell and yell at em to get theyre shoes on so they can go home,

the kids sit there blatantly blanking their mother and continue playing,

i (standing on the stairs) see this instantly walk over grab each kid by the back of their shirts,

ME: OI DONT YOU HEAR WHAT YOUR MOTHER JUST SAID OR ARE YOUR DEAF?

KIDS "YEAH" BUT I WANAN PLAY WITH THIS..ROBO....

ME "NO YOU GET UP NOW (LIFTING THEM BY SHIRTS) AND YOU WILL DO AS YOU MUM TELLS YOU!

I DROP BOTH KIDS IN THE DOUBLE BUGGY AND STRAP EM IN...............INSTANTLY THE 2 KIDS ARE TRYING TO UNSTRAP THEMSELVES


now do you think the kids will listen u come with that bullshit "oh cmon honey please we need to do this"????

no the kids will continue to try and get out,

now instead of the weak n soft approach i outright shouted this at em.

"MIKE, ALFY, YOU BOTH BETTER SHUT UP NOW AND SIT IN YUR BUGGY OR IM GOIN TO GIVE YOU SUCH A SMACK BOYS!


.....theyve felt me smack em one made the error of kicking his mum in the mouth as she was strapping them in once, maaate did he never do that again,




you give a child a reason he/she cant do things he/she will sit there weighing up what youve said to there own instict of just doin what they want,

you inforce your rules properly there less likly to be broken

SPOT ON! It's not cruel, it's not wrong. It's called bringing up a child. They learn things the right way and they turn out as better people.


So, goodluck weedyboy - you'll need it when it comes to you having offspring of your own. If that ever happens.