Quote Originally Posted by geonagual
It also could be a control thing
with you being the one with the power
of gifts and good time..
Geo is correct from my instincts... you've got a nasty history with men and have put it behind you to change from a victim to the one who holds the power. Whether or not you do in fact actually have a lot of power over him is one of those things that only he knows, lol... but the feeling of being in the driver's seat is a refreshing one to a chick who has had her share of being taken for a ride that she never wanted to go on.
I'm seeing the EXACT same situation with my own Donk... excellent food, spectacular sex, fresh homegrown, a lot of good laughs, and most important, IT'S UNCOMPLICATED and he makes no additional demands on me or my time or emotional energy.
After the last few years' worth of relationships that were at best deeply troubled and fraught with dishonesty and at worst physically abusive, it's important to me not to ever fall into those traps again.
Two boats on the same river indeed Miss Hilder.