Uh- oh! Dangerous thoughts a brewin..

[crudemood]

err. best to . drop him. if theres one thing i do hate, leeches who think only of them selves.

[Hilder420]

no, he s not in any way a leech. He has never asked for, hinted at or expected weed. I give him a bag cause i care for him and my body is rushing with endorphins.. hehe.
no, my best friend gets the same treatment minus the sex.. I send her home with a bud or two of my exotics.. Im a just a very giving person.
*Edit* also, trust me, he aint selfish

[crudemood]

oops i've made assumptions! :giggity:
then you are just a real generous gal! what a lucky guy!

[locdog]

I dont see the problem...

Things you do for him: (what i can cypher from your anti sentences)

cook
back rub
weed handler

Things he does for you:

eats ur cooked food
washes his back so ur hands dont get oily from back rubs?
smokes your weed so you dont have to.

I only see this as a win win.... . .. =)

i lol'd


:thumbsup:

[stinkyattic]

It also could be a control thing
with you being the one with the power
of gifts and good time..

Geo is correct from my instincts... you've got a nasty history with men and have put it behind you to change from a victim to the one who holds the power. Whether or not you do in fact actually have a lot of power over him is one of those things that only he knows, lol... but the feeling of being in the driver's seat is a refreshing one to a chick who has had her share of being taken for a ride that she never wanted to go on.
I'm seeing the EXACT same situation with my own Donk... excellent food, spectacular sex, fresh homegrown, a lot of good laughs, and most important, IT'S UNCOMPLICATED and he makes no additional demands on me or my time or emotional energy.
After the last few years' worth of relationships that were at best deeply troubled and fraught with dishonesty and at worst physically abusive, it's important to me not to ever fall into those traps again.
Two boats on the same river indeed Miss Hilder.

[Hilder420]

damn woman we see eye to eye.. your entire post.. haha I forgot about the boats and river.. word on the rep.

[XXBlaze of DesiréXX]

are you a red or green salsa man? Ima red salsa gal. roasted red tomatoes all the way!!!! lol Oh, I made tamales for X-Mas.. OMFG they were sooooo gooodd... perfection.. theyre gone.. 7 dozen.. poof!!!
Control?!? I never though of it like that... I am a take charge kinda girl.. he does have it made.. I like taking care of him.. I smoke him stupid, rub his back till he falls asleep and wake him up with oral.. hehehe hes a total sub in bed too.. lol.. Oh! I should have added one more.. or is it the mexican in me hahaha..

Im startin to think it's just lust, and thats it! Seems like he's gettin more out of it then you! ur supporting him with weed and sex why wouldnt he come back! I think your being used, to be honest, just someone he can have sex with and get everything free from! It's not makin the situation sound too good if you ask me!Seems like friends with just benefits!:wtf:

[Hilder420]

Seems like friends with just benefits!:wtf:

That was the arrangement. He was just the dick, not my boyfriend. well, he was more than that initially, but ended up as just a FWB. i got plenty out of it, but im not the type of person to do stuff for other just so i can get something else in return.

[texas grass]

before i got married i wish i had a hookup like that lol every man does, hell its a win for both
the white shark sounds good


i love all salsas but red rules

mexican food rules

[Hilder420]

I know, thats exactly what the new dick said. He didnt know it could be this way. its nice. that white shark was very nice, but the purps were better.. just ask Slipknotpsycho LMAO
red salsa does rock! last week we went out to a friends cabin and roasted the tomatoes over a bonfire. made flour tortillas and grilled up some fajitas.. lots of weed smokin, beer drinkin, and football. that was an awesome sunday!!
All this good food, and Slip isnt a food fanatic. I told him I like when people fuss over my food, so no food for him!!! LOL