i'm pretty much a loner.... with the exception of a few people, i talk more here then to anyone... in person or over the net... you choose the company you keep, and it seems everyone i come across within a month or so crosses me somehow, which i rarely choose to forgive so they're gone....

short answer? i think it's stupid... and all the sites like it... don't really understand the whole staying in touch thing about it... because everyone i've seen use it has some friends in another state... but neihter of them really talk... it's like a hey what's up and a few sentences here and there and other then that, neither would know the other existed even....

what is the point of keeping in contact when maybe once a month you throw a few lines at 'em? it's not like they're still really good friends and always talking and hanging out, or even keeping each other up-to-date with the going-ons in their life....

seems like one big popularity contest to me... to see who has the most friends on their friends list... of which they talk to all of 3% on anything even resembling a regular basis.